Frequently Asked Questions

Answers by your Premier San Diego Dominatrix
" I am new to this, and I'm not sure what I want"
Helping you to learn about your desires, fetishes is part of my job. There is nothing wrong with being uncertain about what your interest are, but have some idea of what you are interested in when contacting me.
My sessions vary  and I need at least some idea of what you are interested in when booking a session. I  cater to many differnt types of clients. Look over my list of things that I offer under my session page.
I am a Proffessional Dominatrix NOT an escort.
Please know the differnece between the two when contacting me about your session. I do not offer sex or any services that ends in the word “job”
what you see in a porn is not what I engage in. Some escorts offer sex with domination, I DO NOT. I AM NOT AN ESCORT!
How do I book a session with you?
To book a session with me please use the contact field located in the top navagation bar on the site.
Introduce your self and be respectful. I do not answer to rude e-mails.
When addressing me in an e-mail please address me as Mistress Porcelain. When contacting me please leave your contact info, interest, how long of a session you are looking to book, days and times.
If I do not get back to you right away, I am either in a session or busy at the moment. I do check my E-mails throughout the day and will get back to you as soon as I can.
Do You offer outcall?
I do not offer outcall sessions. I only book from my own private dungeon or specific dungeons in other cities when I travel.
How long do I need to book a session with you?
To book a session with ME I require a 24-48hr notice. Same day sessions are sometimes available but not guarnteed. A small one time deposit is required for those who are serious about booking my session time. Once a deposite has been received I can schedule your session appointment in my calendar.
Where do you session from?
I book all of my sessions at a proffessional private dungeon.
It is completly anonymous, safe, and secure. We value privacy just as much as you do. If you are new the “dungeon” may sound intimidating, It isnt. If you are booking a more mild session, just foot worship or something not as intense, I have a room for it all. The space I session from is over 1,000 sq ft with multiple differnet themed rooms. It is fully stocked with anything and everthing imaginable which offers a wide variety of session options. Once your session is booked with me you will recieve a confirmation E-mail. You will also be given a list of my dungeon protocol and rules. You must confirm you have received this email and that you will be attending your session.
Why is a depoist required?
I can understand why clients are wary of a Mistress asking for a depoist.
However, understand that Mistresses receive hundreds of E-mails a day. By asking for a depoist is a very good way to filter out flakes, time wasters, and clients that are not serious about showing up to their session. I also believe that every ones  time is valiuable. I request a deposit to ensure your sincerity and that you will keep your apt. Also if you do not have a reference from another Dominatrix to confirm who you are, or have not sessioned with me, I  will ask for a depoit. As a proffesional Dominatrix with 10 years in the indusrty, I am not going to take a small deposit and not show up to ruin my hard earned, well established repuation. I would have been banned from this industry a long time ago.
Do you travel?
I do travel to different dungeons. I book sessions in advance in Orange County, Los Angeles, and Las Vegas. You can contact me to make arrangements if you would like a session through the contact form on my site.
What should I expect during my session?
Prior to your session I will confrim your session day and time. You will receive instructions and directions to your session. Please arrive on time(not early, or late.) On time. if you arrive to early I might not be ready for you and could be finishing up with a session. If you are late it will run into your session time. Before your session I will go over basic protcol and your session interest. If during your session you would like to go longer, with time premiting, arrangements can me made to extend your session.
Do you do Double Domme sessions?
Yes I do.  If you are interested in booking a double session please indicate that when booking your session. An additional deposit will be required and must be made in advance wth a minimum of 24-48hr notice in order to book accordingly.
Do you switch?
Absoulity not. I am very Dominate. I do not switch.
Do you do phone sessions?
I do, you can contact me through the contact page on my site if you would like to book one.
Do you see couples?
Yes! I love to session with couples. I do couples therepy as well.
Do you use "safe words?
Yes, always. I only session in a safe, consenting, environment.
my subs/slaves safety very seriously and do not condone in unsafe practices. I have a background in CPR, health, safety and sanatization.
Do you offer only foot worshiping sessions?
I do, I have a beautiful room that I book foot worshiping session from in my Dungeon.
I have a perfect size 8 foot and do a lot of foot worshiping modeling and foot fetish events.